Posts in Boundaries
Healthy Boundaries During the Holidays

The days are shorter, the nights are colder, and the holidays are suddenly right around the corner. For some, that brings excitement. For others, it brings a knot in the stomach—many of us feel a mix of both.

Between dinner parties, work events, and family gatherings with people we rarely see, the season offers plenty of opportunities to connect—and just as many opportunities to feel overwhelmed. Old dynamics resurface, difficult personalities emerge, and even the most festive moments can leave us emotionally drained.

So as you think about navigating your relationships at home and at work, ask yourself: Do I feel heard? Am I overextending myself? Do I let things slide because it feels easier than speaking up?
With the holidays fast approaching, one of the kindest gifts we can offer ourselves—and the people we care about—is the gift of healthy boundaries

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The Power of Positive Touch: Nurturing the Queer Community

As a queer person who has worked in a touch-centric industry for decades at this point, I can assuredly say that my relationship with touch was not always a simple or positive one.

The challenges faced by the queer community, which often go unnoticed by a heteronormative society, deserve attention and understanding. The narratives presented in stories, movies, advertisements, religious teachings, friendships, literature, and societal norms perpetuate the notion that there is a singular correct and acceptable storyline for people's lives, dismissing any other experiences as deviations to be concealed or left unspoken. Without counterbalancing messages to combat these pervasive feelings of exclusion, many of us have grown up with an inherent sense that our very essence as individuals is fundamentally flawed.

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